Debbie Dubickas Hypnotherapy

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The Well of Passion is Never Ending

 

The Well of Passion is Never Ending

So many of us do not know what our passion is? We are stuck and clouded as to what we want, where we are going and who we want to spend our time with ?

Once we let go of our blocks, allow our emotions to flow and I mean all our emotions to flow, we are then in a position to allow our passion to come through.

From a peaceful state, our answers come to us and decisions are made. Our Well of Passion allows us to feel – feel love, drive, happiness and energy. With passion, we commit, take action and follow through.

We must be in a healthy place to take action which leads to results which is progression. Remember we all create our own reality and it does not have to come from our “Story”, our “Past” or “Childhood Perceptions”. We have the power to make choices that is right for all of us and that starts today by focusing on what each and everyone one of us wants and allows ourselves to believe that we deserve it.

My Well of Passion is the Ocean.

Debbie

Passion -v- Drive

In the work I do, I see a difference between passion and drive, yet both are great motivators.

I recall working with a teacher who had such a passion for what she did.  Late night planning activities for her class, going above and beyond with volunteering work and more.  Her pay check was not that great  and she was a very intelligent and capable woman who could have easily worked her way up within the education field yet she chose to stay in the class room.   She loved her job.  I would say that her passion motivated her every day.

 

Whereas I recall a client of mine who worked long hours as an Attorney.   She didn’t particularly enjoy her work (although she was very good at it), and she was rewarded with large paychecks every two weeks. When I asked her why she decided to be an Attorney as she told me there was no passion in what she did and she answered that “it was the safe thing to do”.    I would say that the motivation here was drive.  A drive to fill the need to feel safe and large paychecks was a mean to do this.

A lot of people confuse passion with drive. After all, they both seem to accomplish the same end result – the motivation to succeed. But there is a key difference.  Passion and desire is addictive and gives us pleasure.  No matter the long hours the teacher puts into her work or the over scheduled parent meetings, she loved what she did.

Drive is different.  It is perhaps about outside expectations from our parents and care givers’ influence whilst growing up.  It becomes “the norm” growing up and my client followed “the norm” in choosing a financially safe career.  The stability and respect she commands from her friends and family is a tremendous motivation, being what other people think of her really matters.

In the service that I provide, I can honestly say my motivation comes from passion and I am fortunate enough to have allowed my passion to motivate me and the increased pay checks followed.  The legacy I have passed down to my children is for them to “find what they really want to do in life, being their passion, then work for somebody else in learning the business, then go and do for themselves”.

 

Debbie Dubickas, CHt

Fed Up of Attracting Controlling Men ?

 

Same old, same old, I have done it again.  I feel mad with myself, why do I do it to myself?

 

If you can relate to this, then read on …

Falling into a healthy loving relationship comes easy and natural, a natural way of life.  However falling in love with a controlling male may be saying something about you.   Why are you attracting these men into your life ?  Why do you go back for more and more ?  Why is pain a way of life ?  Why do I have to work so hard to be loved ?  I can fix him, I shall try again, he is worth it ?

As a child, You may have perceived that in order to be loved, this took a lot of work, therefore in such a way, it was conditional.   Even though this may have been how love was experienced as a child for many woman, this does not have to be the case in your adult life.   It would have included a certain amount of emotional pain. This could have included feelings of rejection, abandonment, betrayal and violation.

These feelings would have had to have been repressed; because if they were revealed it may have lead to further control or even isolation. But these feelings haven’t disappeared; they will have remained in the body.

Once these feelings are released and you no longer feel comfortable with this kind of love, a woman will no longer be attracted to or attract men who are controlling. This process can be undertaken through the assistance of a hypnotherapist and various skilled techniques.

 

If you are ready to make that shift into loving yourself first and being worthy and deserving of love that comes natural and easy, then call Debbie now on 813 992 3330.

Thank You from My Heart to Yours.

I would like to personally thank all my clients for giving me the pleasure of working with you during 2017.   With having facilitated over 11,000 client sessions to date, I feel personally blessed to have worked with so many amazing people who have had the courage to change.  As the Serenity Prayers says

 

Some clients are not ready, some clients are scared of the unknown and there are some that have not suffered enough.  For those of you who are looking to live your life with Confidence and Worth in  2018 by being the version of yourself you were born to be, then maybe this is the time for you to come and visit Debbie Dubickas, CHt at Soho-Wellness and Med Spa.  Let go of the “ifs” and “why me” to “Good Morning” and “With appreciation and gratitude, Life is Good” living in the NOW  “It’s my time to reach my goals”.

Mind Wellness at Soho Wellness

 

“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.”
Buddha

At Soho-Wellness we believe in living in the NOW with a positive and confident mind set, allowing us to create our future.  However, this is easier said than done.

Many of us are going through life changes, choices, confusion, and challenges in reaching our goals, we are often looking for something magical… or someone with powerful,  mystical answers from other sources…      Unfortunately there is no magic yet we have the power of our mind.

Hypnosis helps you unleash the awesome power of your own mind to realize your potential and live it.

Since the beginning of time, mothers have sung soothing lullabies while rocking babies in their arms. This repetitious melody and continuous motion are both calming and hypnotic.

The power of suggestion has motivated mankind since the beginning of recorded time.

At Soho-Wellness we work with you to make your own hypnotic recording of positive suggestions in how you want to be, how you want to feel and for you to visualize you life accepting these suggestions.

In ancient Egypt and Greece, and during the Roman Empire, as early as 1000 BC, sleep temples were places that priests introduced the procedure and practice of suggestion – sleep – cure, the belief that the mind can heal the body.  

During the 1700’s, Viennese physician, Franz Anton Mesmer, developed the process of prolonged eye fixation to balance the animal magnetism, improved health in his patients, referred to as mesmerism.

In the 1800’s, English physician, James Braid, who studied Mesmer’s work and the practice of suggestibility, introduced the term “neuro-hypnosis” meaning nervous sleep, later coined the term “Hypnosis” as a new science for the very first time. James Esdaile, a Scottish surgeon, applied suggestion as hypnotic anesthesia in British East India to patients during surgery.

Indian culture acknowledges the concept of higher self, meditation, and other altered states of consciousness. Portuguese priest, Jose Custodia de Faria, referred to hypnosis as lucid sleep, determined that the better your concentration, the more easily you are hypnotized.

At Soho-Wellness discover how easy it is to go into the hypnotic state and feel fully in control and acutely aware of what is going on throughout the session.  Enjoy the experience and allow the process of change to begin …

As a Hypnotherapist, I work with client’s TRIGGERS

There are buttons/triggers that we all have inside. The emotion has manifested in some way in our bodies. Ideally in my world of service, I call this a “Felt Sense”, a sensation within.  We may have no idea what to do with our emotions – with our heart,  yet if we knew what to do with our emotions and how to transform those,  every day we grow to incredible heights – we attract things and people to us – our vibration rate increases – less doubt – less hurt – when heart is clear – just happy excited about life – generally feel love for ourself – deeper connection – state of peace – wellbeing – our natural state when our heart is not closed and not blocked – two levels – there is closing it and even if it is open there may still be blocks.  

As is with Law of Attraction, we all have vibrations.  Many clients suffer from anxious symptoms.  Under these symptoms is guilt and shame  – Fear of Judgement – being terribly scared of what others are going to find out about you.  In many sessions, underneath anxiousness, there could be a whole layer of guilt and shame.

Hypnotherapy has the tools to clear conflict and allow all of us to live from a place of peace, worth and allowing us to love ourselves and love others more.

Call Soho-Wellness and Med Spa to attend one or our Self-help Workshops or a private session with Debbie Dubickas, CHt

813 284 7045

 

Why Does This Always Happen To Me ?

 

It always happens to me.  This is a negative thought that causes the negative emotion which causes you to feel so bad.  This is a perception that things have already happened to you.  You have been programmed to feel how you are going to feel before an event happens.  With hypnotherapy we go back to the cause of these negative beliefs and emotions and transform these.  Why am I so fat, I have no control?  Change this thought to “How Can I become more thin now and enjoy the process”?   Our mind loves pleasure.  Is it time to change the way you think?  Call Soho-Wellness on 813 284 7045 to schedule an appointment.

Clarity is Power

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Clear your inner conflict Now and be the version of yourself you were born to be.

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Hold The Vision, Trust The Process

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It is so important for all of us to hold onto our dreams and visions and allow the process to happen.  I am Feeling very proud and excited today at working with my first client for 2 days continuously at the beach.  This gives time for techniques and processing time to happen without days or sometimes weeks in between sessions.  This is a reminder to all of us to have a vision, believe in yourself and let things unfold for you.  Everything happens for a reason  ……….

 

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Making Decisions or Not ?

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As an Intuitive Life Coach,  Debbie works with clients to transform their fears into confidence and self assurance allowing clients to focus, thrive, survive and make decisions right for them.  Focus equals power.   Clients take their power back and focus on the things they truly want.   From a place of passion,  peace, strength, drive and worth everything you truly want is attainable.  Every thought has a physical reaction and with a positive mindset, thoughts lead to a healthier you, a thriving you.

When we live in conflict, it is very challenging to make a decision. What keeps us from making a decision is fear of failure.  The decisive person is the person with respect, confidence and self assurance within themselves and felt by others. We are what we attract.  In “Debbie’s World” through her life coaching techniques, there is no such thing as failure, there is only opportunity.  If you don’t like your body, change it.   Don’t like your job, change it.  Don’t like your relationship, change it.  Don’t like yourself, change it.  When you get in your head, you are dead living your life from ego.  Working with Debbie it’s time to drop the ego and come from your heart.  Coming from the heart, you are alive, excited, compassionate and strong.   From that place, decisions come naturally and follow through.

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22 Jun 2018

The Well of Passion is Never Ending

  The Well of Passion is Never Ending So many of us do not know what our passion is? We are stuck and clouded as to what we want, where we are going and who we want to spend our time with ? Once we let go of our blocks, allow our emotions to flow and I mean all our emotions to flow, we are then in a position to allow our passion to come through. From a peaceful state, our answers come to us and decisions are made. Our…

29 May 2018

Passion -v- Drive

In the work I do, I see a difference between passion and drive, yet both are great motivators. I recall working with a teacher who had such a passion for what she did.  Late night planning activities for her class, going above and beyond with volunteering work and more.  Her pay check was not that great  and she was a very intelligent and capable woman who could have easily worked her way up within the education field yet she chose to stay in the class room.   She loved her…

23 May 2018

Fed Up of Attracting Controlling Men ?

  Same old, same old, I have done it again.  I feel mad with myself, why do I do it to myself?   If you can relate to this, then read on ... Falling into a healthy loving relationship comes easy and natural, a natural way of life.  However falling in love with a controlling male may be saying something about you.   Why are you attracting these men into your life ?  Why do you go back for more and more ?  Why is pain a way of life…