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02 Aug 2019

Infidelity

  What does infidelity mean to you ?    It may mean your partner has had a sexual affair, a one night stand or more.  Having worked with many couples facilitating  their process of moving on from the infidelity, an affair does not always involve having a sexual relationship. Infidelity is unfaithfulness in a marriage/committed relationship.  Whether it be an emotional affair, whereby your husband/wife has had a close relationship with someone outside the marriage.  Someone they feel connected to; alive with; desired by and more.  This connection has them feeling…

16 Feb 2019

Emotions Are Everything

  I work with many clients that feel they are emotionally blocked and come to see me as it is affecting their lives in many ways.  Many are very successful in their business or career, yet in their intimate relationships, they have issues, problems. No matter how hard they work and achieve, the one thing they struggle with is allowing themselves to get close to someone.  To love and be loved; To touch and fully be in the moment; To allow themselves to crave and have what they truly want,…

11 Feb 2019

Have you Suffered Enough ?

Having worked with thousands of clients, I have dealt with many issues, habits and symptoms and believe it or not, some people will keep suffering and hold onto their issue/problem/habit.  So much so, they look on me being the facilitator as the enemy, the one who is calling them out.   The question I ask myself, and my client, is "What are you getting out of having this behavior/issue/symptom ?" This is known in my world as the secondary gain or negative payoff in having their problem.  For many it…

14 Jan 2019

What is Self-Esteem ?

  Let me start off 2019 by looking back over thousands of client sessions which I have facilitated and look at what they all have in common - LOW SELF ESTEEM.  In fact, let us look at what Self Esteem really is. A definition may be "It refers to an individual's sense of his or her value or worth, or the extent to which a person values, approves of, appreciates, prizes, or likes him or herself (Blascovich & Tomaka, 1991)."  This may well be a good definition but how this…

24 Aug 2018

Hypno Meditation

Join Debbie for her Hypno Meditation Class -  Tuesdays 6pm to 7pm - $20 per person - max 20 persons Hypno meditation is a beautiful and powerful combination of hypnosis and meditation. Meditation is the simplest way to achieve inner stillness and deep focused awareness and relaxation. Under guidance of Debbie Dubickas,  hypnotherapist, hypnosis shows you your natural ability to go into a state of trance.  This class is perfect for those of you who find it difficult to STOP your thoughts or meditation beginners who struggle with over-active minds. Meditation…

22 Jun 2018

The Well of Passion is Never Ending

  The Well of Passion is Never Ending So many of us do not know what our passion is? We are stuck and clouded as to what we want, where we are going and who we want to spend our time with ? Once we let go of our blocks, allow our emotions to flow and I mean all our emotions to flow, we are then in a position to allow our passion to come through. From a peaceful state, our answers come to us and decisions are made. Our…

29 May 2018

Passion -v- Drive

In the work I do, I see a difference between passion and drive, yet both are great motivators. I recall working with a teacher who had such a passion for what she did.  Late night planning activities for her class, going above and beyond with volunteering work and more.  Her pay check was not that great  and she was a very intelligent and capable woman who could have easily worked her way up within the education field yet she chose to stay in the class room.   She loved her…

23 May 2018

Fed Up of Attracting Controlling Men ?

  Same old, same old, I have done it again.  I feel mad with myself, why do I do it to myself?   If you can relate to this, then read on ... Falling into a healthy loving relationship comes easy and natural, a natural way of life.  However falling in love with a controlling male may be saying something about you.   Why are you attracting these men into your life ?  Why do you go back for more and more ?  Why is pain a way of life…

26 Dec 2017

Thank You from My Heart to Yours.

I would like to personally thank all my clients for giving me the pleasure of working with you during 2017.   With having facilitated over 11,000 client sessions to date, I feel personally blessed to have worked with so many amazing people who have had the courage to change.  As the Serenity Prayers says   Some clients are not ready, some clients are scared of the unknown and there are some that have not suffered enough.  For those of you who are looking to live your life with Confidence and Worth…

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