Have you Suffered Enough ?

Having worked with thousands of clients, I have dealt with many issues, habits and symptoms and believe it or not, some people will keep suffering and hold onto their issue/problem/habit.  So much so, they look on me being the facilitator as the enemy, the one who is calling them out.   The question I ask myself, and my client, is “What are you getting out of having this behavior/issue/symptom ?”

This is known in my world as the secondary gain or negative payoff in having their problem.  For many it is the feeling of significance.  They are being heard, they are being noticed.  For others it is numbing the pain and hurt.  For even more it is validating the victim they feel inside. For the majority, they have suffered enough and are ready to let go of what is no longer serving them in order to live a fulfilled and healthy life.

What I do as a Hypnotherapist is work with my clients in reaching their goals.  The vision they see from a healthy mindset is a victory every client is worthy of.   A life everyone truly deserves when they decide to let go of their suffering.  It is clearly a process and one session most of the time is not enough for a significant shift.  It is also hard work and you as the client do most of it !

If you have suffered enough and are ready to change the battle within your own thoughts then perhaps now is the time to change.  Call Soho-Wellness NOW and book your free consultation on 813 512 6920 – Make This The Time To Change

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

16 Feb 2019

Emotions Are Everything

  I work with many clients that feel they are emotionally blocked and come to see me as it is affecting their lives in many ways.  Many are very successful in their business or career, yet in their intimate relationships, they have issues, problems. No matter how hard they work and achieve, the one thing they struggle with is allowing themselves to get close to someone.  To love and be loved; To touch and fully be in the moment; To allow themselves to crave and have what they truly want,…

11 Feb 2019

Have you Suffered Enough ?

Having worked with thousands of clients, I have dealt with many issues, habits and symptoms and believe it or not, some people will keep suffering and hold onto their issue/problem/habit.  So much so, they look on me being the facilitator as the enemy, the one who is calling them out.   The question I ask myself, and my client, is "What are you getting out of having this behavior/issue/symptom ?" This is known in my world as the secondary gain or negative payoff in having their problem.  For many it…

14 Jan 2019

What is Self-Esteem ?

  Let me start off 2019 by looking back over thousands of client sessions which I have facilitated and look at what they all have in common - LOW SELF ESTEEM.  In fact, let us look at what Self Esteem really is. A definition may be "It refers to an individual's sense of his or her value or worth, or the extent to which a person values, approves of, appreciates, prizes, or likes him or herself (Blascovich & Tomaka, 1991)."  This may well be a good definition but how this…