End Troubled Love

Many of us repeat the negative patterns in the relationships we attract.  We have far more power than we think to transform troubled relationships into loving and harmonious ones. Furthermore, this can often be done amazingly quickly. However, there will be a price to pay. You’ll have to be willing to pinpoint your own role in the problem and focus all of your efforts on changing yourself, rather than blaming the other person or trying to change him or her. This can be painful, because it requires letting go of the ego and moving to fully living your life from an open heart.  Our subconscious mind is the home of our beliefs and emotions which create our realities and this plays over and over again. Through gaining access to the sub-conscious through hypnosis, the re-programing begins.
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16 Feb 2019

Emotions Are Everything

  I work with many clients that feel they are emotionally blocked and come to see me as it is affecting their lives in many ways.  Many are very successful in their business or career, yet in their intimate relationships, they have issues, problems. No matter how hard they work and achieve, the one thing they struggle with is allowing themselves to get close to someone.  To love and be loved; To touch and fully be in the moment; To allow themselves to crave and have what they truly want,…

11 Feb 2019

Have you Suffered Enough ?

Having worked with thousands of clients, I have dealt with many issues, habits and symptoms and believe it or not, some people will keep suffering and hold onto their issue/problem/habit.  So much so, they look on me being the facilitator as the enemy, the one who is calling them out.   The question I ask myself, and my client, is "What are you getting out of having this behavior/issue/symptom ?" This is known in my world as the secondary gain or negative payoff in having their problem.  For many it…

14 Jan 2019

What is Self-Esteem ?

  Let me start off 2019 by looking back over thousands of client sessions which I have facilitated and look at what they all have in common - LOW SELF ESTEEM.  In fact, let us look at what Self Esteem really is. A definition may be "It refers to an individual's sense of his or her value or worth, or the extent to which a person values, approves of, appreciates, prizes, or likes him or herself (Blascovich & Tomaka, 1991)."  This may well be a good definition but how this…