Fear of Commitment Symptoms – 03/30/15

  • Fear of Commitment  Symptoms
    Many clients come to me with similar beliefs and emotions they hold about themselves. These beliefs and emotions live in the sub-conscious which in effect, plays out in their behaviors.  Each client is an individual and here are just a few of the behaviors playing out in their lives.
    • Fear of rejection
    • Being afraid of abandonment
    • Being scared of intimacy
    • Trying too hard to find the ‘Perfect Partner’
    • Being too critical of your partner
    • Being too aloof
    • Being deliberately hurtful to your partner
    • Being too critical of yourself
    • Being scared of being noticed
    • Fear of being engulfed in a relationship
    • Being afraid to have sex
    • Repeatedly falling for a person who isn’t interested
    • Repeatedly ending and restarting a relationship
    • The avoidance of committing to almost anything
    The past is important, it has resulted in you being here now, being the person you are. More important than the past is the present, how you are thinking in the here and now, moment by moment, and also the future visualization, how you are imagining things will be for you. Through hypnotherapy modalities, Neuro-Linguistic techniques and breathwork we  begin the process of transformation leading you to achieving your goal.

Debbie Dubickas CHt
Effective, Affordable Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy
Serving Tampa, FL Since 2012

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